Why we are not happy
Happiness is a wonderful thing, if you are willing to share, then, one will become .
Institutions in the United States, a survey in 22 countries all over the world investigate people’s happiness level, results showed that the highest levels of American happiness, 46 percent of Americans have their own happy life, followed by India, 37% of Indians to live in, and China the lowest level of happiness in terms of bottom, only 9% of the Chinese people feel happy to live. (Hereinafter referred to Americans, Chinese people are generally refers to the majority of people, but not all.)
American happy six reasons
1. To believe “there is also suffering Happiness”
In the United States, many people rely on relief from life, even to the streets for money to live, but happily all day long Oh, this is not the happy road to self-deception, but they believe that, even in the unfortunate circumstances that can Happiness found.
2. Will be home and happy marriage as the largest source of
The United States is often between husband and wife called each other “honey” (the original word “honey”, there is also outstanding, refreshing the meaning), that is, in concept, they have been seen as the other members of the family are feeling so that their own sweet sources. They are happy to play “atmosphere”, a gift to buy a flower lover, open a masquerade to a candlelight dinner … … and may even appear slightly overdrawn.
3. The aim of education is to enable children to become competent citizens of Happiness
American did not believe they are the children is the biggest wish of Happiness and health. At educating the children, they usually let the children and adults have the same equal right to choose. If the parents are wrong, apologize to the children; If children do not want to do, not force; If there is a need to discuss things, parents will respect the views of children.
4. Think health is the greatest happiness
A 20th century Life expectancy of international medical research shows that the average American life expectancy by 30 years of age. The study also pointed out that the U.S. health care system so that American life expectancy is only extended for 5 years; and science, and proper health education, to actively promote a healthy lifestyle, as well as a variety of services to the people of prevention strategies, public health measures, Today, the average American are living for 25 years many reasons.
5. Are happy that the wealth of capital, rather than happy cumbersome
Americans do not enjoy the money and time spent on eating and drinking, but for tourism and fitness; They also keen on various social charitable activities, to enjoy the kind of in people’s respect and gratitude and praise to gain happiness.
6. Consider the purpose of job is the pursuit of Happiness
Choose the job of the American argument is: “If you are not happy, why should we do this work?” In their view, the cause brought fame and fortune, and happiness are different.
Why do not Chinese people about happiness, there is a period of characters said: “Happiness is not money, is not happy after the wealthy; people handle was not happy, after the disposal of others is still not happy; When students are not happy, wage-earning money or not ; unhappy at home, abroad, after tossing about equally unhappy. In short, too tired to live. ”
China is not happy cause of
Not happy about the reasons, has the following 4 sets of data:
1.61.8% out of job factors, such as the income is not satisfactory, job stress too much, too little rest time, the lack of a sense of achievement, job boring, uncertain future and interpersonal discord.
2.4% and family relations, such as harmony with their families can not get along well, too little time with their families, housing and household income are not satisfied with the low.
3.12.8% of the material stems from dissatisfaction with life, such as wages, welfare, social security, housing, transport and other consumer goods.
4.24.2% of the survey indicated that they will not actively look for happiness, or lack of access to effective way to happy.
List to share with you, I hope we can gain from them, find their own road to Happiness.